Thank you for your ideas and support!
Its now official me and my wife are not playing, the Fallen angels leader stripped our accounts, when she found out we were leaveing for another MMORPG. "She said it was for safe keeping", I asked for it back, and she said Im too busy and started flipping out! when my wife talked to her, and she started to hyperventilate and said this was too much stress!? then she kicked us out of the clan, and off team speak!. ( note to self, NEVER give ANYONE your log in details!)
so now i have 2 accounts, stripped.......
Well, the old saying is true, don't give out your account details.
I learned the hard way
so we have bought Tabula rasa, and it looks fairly good.
We took it under sanityislost's suggestion.